The Vatican's preparatory document for the Synod contains many helpful ideas:
- international studies on the characteristics on today's youth
- steps on helping them discern their vocation
- emphasis that "ways of approaching the faith are less standardized", and thus be attentive to individuality
- what is "most important" is to help the youth enjoy the value of silence and contemplation of the Word of God, especially through lectio divina. (See resources for helping them value quiet time with God, contemplate the Word of God through the Rosary and do lectio divina)
- Also important is formation in listening to one's conscience and understanding one's own experience
- "Contact with poverty, vulnerability and need are of great importance". (See a resource on Loving and Visiting the Poor)
The Prelate emphasized St. Josemaria's teaching that 90% of a child's vocation come from his parents. Because of the parents' vast, preponderant influence, parents should be helped so that they can, as the Prelate stressed, (1) love their children, (2) demand from them, (3) put them in contact with suffering, (4) help them become "souls of prayer." (See free ebook on parenting; Strategies for a Great Family, Pope Francis' Most Important Advice to Your Family)
For a quick overview of the contents of the preparatory document, below are key excerpts:
For a quick overview of the contents of the preparatory document, below are key excerpts:
Introduction
The Church has decided to examine herself on how she can lead young people
to recognize and accept the call to the fullness of life and love, and
to ask young people to help her in identifying the most effective ways to
announce the Good News today.
For each person, the vocation to love takes concrete form in everyday
life through a series of choices. The purpose of vocational discernment is to
find out how to transform life choices, in the light of faith, into steps towards
the fullness of joy to which everyone is called.
The strength and beauty of young people: the ability to rejoice at the
beginning of undertakings, to give oneself totally without going back, to pick
oneself up and begin again in search of new conquests.
I. YOUNG PEOPLE IN TODAY’S WORLD
International studies on some characteristic features of young people in
our times.
(1) Belonging and Participation. Young people do not see themselves as passive recipients of pastoral
programs or policies. Many wish to be an active part in the process of
change taking place at this present time.
Young people, on the one hand, show a willingness and readiness to participate
and commit themselves to concrete activities in which the personal
contribution of each might be an occasion for recognizing one’s identity.
Besides passivity, a lack of confidence in themselves and their
abilities can manifest itself in an excessive concern for their self-image
and in a submissive conformity to passing fads.
(2) Personal and Institutional
Points of Reference. Young people have a need for persons of reference, who are
close-by, credible, consistent and honest, in addition to places and occasions
for testing their ability to relate to others (both adults and peers) and
dealing with their feelings and emotions.
The role of parents and families is
crucial yet sometimes problematic. The older generations often tend to
underestimate young people’s potential. They emphasize their weaknesses and
have trouble understanding the needs of those who are very young. Parents and
adult educators can also be aware of their own mistakes and know what
they would not want young people to do. However, oftentimes they do not have
a clear idea of how to help young people focus on the future. In this
regard, the two most common reactions are preferring not to say anything and
imposing their own choices. Absent or overprotective parents make their
children more unprepared to face life and tend to underestimate the risks
involved or are obsessed by a fear of making mistakes.
The young oftentimes nourish mistrust, indifference or anger towards
institutions; They would like the Church to be closer to people and
more attentive to social issues
Though young people are not in open “opposition”, they learn to live
“without” the God presented by the Gospel and “without” the Church and to rely
on alternative and minimally-institutionalized forms of religion and
spirituality or to take refuge in sects or religious experiences with a
strong affiliation
(3) Towards a Hyper-Connected
Generation. Younger generation is characterized by its relationship with the modern
technologies of communication and what is normally called the “virtual world”,
which has very real effects.
Young People and Choices
Within this fluidity and insecurity, the transition
to adult life and the building of a personal identity increasingly require a
“reflective course of action.”
They have a conception of freedom as the possibility of having access
to ever-new opportunities is emerging: “Today I choose this, tomorrow we'll
see.” In affective relationships as in the world of work, the horizon consists of
options which can always be reversed rather than definitive choices.
In this context, old approaches no longer work and the experience passed
on by previous generations quickly becomes obsolete. Thus, Pope Francis asked: ‘How can we reawaken the greatness and the
courage of comprehensive choices, of the impulses of the heart in order to
face academic and emotional challenges?’. The phrase I use very often is: take
a risk! Take a risk. Whoever does not risk does not walk. ‘But what if I
make a mistake?’ Blessed be the Lord! You will make more mistakes if you remain
still”
II FAITH, DISCERNMENT, VOCATION
Some ideas will now be presented regarding accompanying young people
1. Faith and Vocation
Faith is seeing things as Jesus does (cf. Lumen fidei, 18). Faith
is the source of vocational discernment. If the vocation to the joy of love
is the fundamental call that God has placed in the heart of every young
person so that each one’s existence will bear fruit, faith is both a gift from
on high and a response to feeling oneself chosen and loved.
The Bible has numerous accounts of young people receiving a vocational
call and their making a response.
Human beings cannot easily recognize the concrete form of that joy
to which God calls each one. Human beings are also capable of rising above
themselves, choosing again what is good, and making a new start, despite
their mental and social conditioning
2. The Gift of Discernment
Vocational discernment is the process by which a person makes
fundamental choices, in dialogue with the Lord and listening to the voice
of the Spirit, starting with the choice of one’s state in life
How does a person live the good news of the Gospel and respond to the
call which the Lord addresses to all those he encounters, whether through
marriage, the ordained ministry or the consecrated life? Where can a
person’s talents be put to good use: a professional life, volunteer work,
service to the needy or involvement in civil and political life?
The three verbs in Evangelii
gaudium, 51, used to describe discernment, namely, “to recognize,” “to interpret” and “to choose”, can be of
assistance in mapping out a suitable itinerary
Recognizing: requires making emotional richness emerge. Meditating on the
Word of God mobilizes the passions and offers the possibility of making
them emerge. Ability to listen and on one’s feelings and emotions, without avoiding the arduous effort of
silence, a critical step in personal growth
Interpreting: to understand what the Spirit is calling the person to do through
what the Spirit stirs up in each one. Requires patience, vigilance and even a
certain knowledge; requires an honest confrontation, in light of God's Word,
with the moral demands of the Christian life, always seeking to apply them in
the concrete situation; seek a way to make the most of one’s gifts and
possibilities; carried out in an internal
dialogue with the Lord; assistance of an experienced person in listening to
the Spirit is a valuable support
Choosing: Promoting truly free and responsible choices remains the goal of every serious pastoral vocational
program. Discernment is the main tool which permits safeguarding the inviolable
place of conscience, without pretending to replace it (cf. Amoris
laetitia, 37). A decision needs to be proven by facts to see whether
it is a right decision
3. Paths Towards Vocation and Mission
Vocational discernment is not accomplished in a single act; a long
process unfolding over time, during which one continues to monitor the signs
used by the Lord to indicate and specify a vocation that is very personal and
unique.
Every vocation is directed towards a mission; Accepting the
mission implies the willingness to risk one’s life: to travel the way of
the cross, in the footsteps of Jesus, who firmly set out on his journey to
Jerusalem (cf. Lk 9:51) to offer his life for humanity. Only
by giving up being selfishly occupied with one’s needs does a person become
open to accommodate God’s plan
Contact with poverty, vulnerability and need are of great importance on the road to
vocational discernment
4. Accompaniment
Three basic beliefs underlie the process of discernment: First is that the Spirit of God works
in the heart of every man; Second
belief is that the human heart, because of its weakness and sin, is normally
divided because it is attracted to different and even contrary feelings; The
third belief is that every way of
life imposes a choice
The Church’s spiritual tradition emphasizes the importance of personal
accompaniment: it is a question of fostering a person’s relationship with God and
helping to remove what might hinder it. (cf. Jn 3:29-30).
III PASTORAL ACTIVITY: How does the Church help young
people accept their call to the joy of the Gospel?
1. Walking with Young People
Accompanying young people requires going beyond a preconceived
framework, encountering young people where they are, adapting to their times
and pace of life and taking them seriously.
The task involves learning to allow for something
new
(1) Going
Out: primarily, by abandoning the rigid attitudes which make the
proclamation of the joy of the Gospel less credible; leaving behind a framework
which makes people feel hemmed-in; and by giving up a way of acting as Church
which at times is out-dated.
The young will find the Church more attractive,
when they see that their unique contribution is welcomed.
(2) Seeing: willingness to spend time with them, to listen to the story of their
lives and to be attentive to their joys, hopes, sadness and anxieties; all
in an effort to share them.
(3) Calling: means awakening a desire and jarring people from what blocks
them or from the complacency which slows them down. Calling means asking
questions which have no ready-made answers (See article on Factors for a vocation to celibacy)
2. Agents
All Young
People, Without Exception. Each community is called to be attentive to young people
A
Responsible Community. The entire Christian community should feel the responsibility of
educating new generations; needs to give major importance to young people’s
involvement in the structures of participation; devise and offer young people
significant experiences of growth and discernment
The aspect of planning shows signs of
unpreparedness and a lack of skill, a situation which needs to be avoided by
more earnestly undertaking the task of thinking, realizing, coordinating and
implementing the pastoral program for young people in a correct, consistent and
effective manner
People of
Reference. The role of credible adults and their cooperation is basic in the course
of human development and vocational discernment. This requires authoritative
believers, with a clear human identity, a strong sense of belonging to the
Church, a visible spiritual character, a strong passion for education and a
great capacity for discernment
Even providing them with major pedagogical skills. Being
close to young people
Parents
and Family: the irreplaceable educational role played by parents and other family
members needs to be acknowledged
Teachers
and other Persons in Education: many Catholic teachers are involved as witnesses in universities and
schools in every grade and level. Responding generously to one’s proper vocation is the primary way of performing
pastoral vocational work.
3. Resources.
The Means
of Expression in Pastoral Work.
We sometimes have a difficult time finding the proper language and expressions
to speak to young people; sports are an educational resource, because they
offer opportunities in many ways. Music and other artistic expressions are in
themselves a privileged means with which young people can manifest their
individuality.
Educative
Care and the Path of Evangelization. Get accustomed to the fact that the ways of approaching the faith are
less standardized, and therefore we must become more attentive to the
individuality of each person. The challenge for communities is to receive
everyone, following the example of Jesus
Silence,
Contemplation and Prayer. Finally and most importantly, no discernment is possible without cultivating
a familiarity with the Lord and a dialogue with his Word. In
particular, Lectio divina is a valuable method. In an increasingly noisy society, one fundamental objective is to provide the young with opportunities to enjoy the value
of silence and contemplation and to receive formation in understanding
one’s experiences and to listen to one’s conscience.
4. Mary of Nazareth
Each young person can discover in Mary’s life the
way to listen, the courage that faith generates, the depths of discernment and
dedication to service.
QUESTIONS: Evaluating the Situation
What
kinds and places of group gatherings of youth, institutionalized or otherwise,
have a major success outside the Church, and why?
How are
families and communities involved in the vocational discernment of young
people?
How do
schools and universities or other educational institutions (civil or ecclesial)
contribute to young people’s formation in vocational discernment?
In what
manner are you taking into account the cultural changes resulting from the
development of the digital world?
The Vatican document can be found here.
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