THE POPE’S MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE TO YOUR FAMILY
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Selected quotes from Pope Francis' Amoris Laetitia, Joy of the Family
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IMPORTANCE OF MARRIAGE AND THE FAMILY
· The
welfare of the family is decisive for the future of the world and that of the
Church.
· Don’t you realize
that the family throughout the world is in crisis? Don’t we realize that the
falling birth rate in Europe is enough to make one cry? And the family is the
basis of society. Do you not realize that the youth don’t want to marry? These
are big problems. (Interview on the document)
I. CHRIST AND THE FAMILY
· In
and among families, the Gospel message should always resound; the core of that
message, the kerygma [God loves us and is near us], is what is most beautiful,
most excellent, most appealing and at the same time most necessary.
· If a
family is centred on Christ, he will unify and illumine its entire life.
· Emphasis
should be given to the importance of family spirituality, prayer and
participation in the Sunday Eucharist, and couples encouraged to meet regularly
to promote growth in their spiritual life and solidarity in the concrete
demands of life.
· It is
essential that children actually see that, for their parents, prayer is
something truly important.
· A few minutes can
be found each day to come together before the living God with a few simple
words, this moment of prayer can do immense good for our families.
· Many are touched
by the power of grace experienced in sacramental Reconciliation and in the
Eucharist, grace that helps them face the challenges of marriage and the
family.
· Every morning, on
rising, we reaffirm before God our decision to be faithful, come what may in
the course of the day.
II. LOVE AND
MARRIAGE
· It is important
that marriage be seen as a matter of love, that only those who freely choose
and love one another may marry. When love is merely physical attraction or a
vague affection, spouses become particularly vulnerable once this affection
wanes or physical attraction diminishes.
· True love between
husband and wife involves mutual self-giving, includes and integrates the sexual
and affective dimensions.
· Develop a routine
that gives a healthy sense of closeness and stability through shared daily
rituals. These could include a morning kiss, an evening blessing, waiting at
the door to welcome each other home, taking trips together and sharing
household chores.
· There is growing
danger represented by an extreme individualism which weakens family bonds.
· The strength of
the family lies in its capacity to love and to teach how to love. For all a
family's problems, it can always grow, beginning with love.
· What really makes
us important is a love that understands, shows concern, and embraces the weak.
· The spirituality
of family love is made up of thousands of small but real gestures.
· Love is ever
ready to be of assistance.
· Persevere in a
love strengthened by the virtues of generosity, commitment, fidelity and
patience.
· Our loved ones
merit our complete attention.
· Greater emphasis
on personal communication between the spouses helps to make family life more
humane.
III.
PROCREATION AND CHILDREN
· The word which
appears most frequently in the Old Testament after the name of God, is
"child". Lo, sons are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the
womb, a reward.
· Greater emphasis
needs to be placed on the fact that children are a wonderful gift from God and
a joy for parents and the Church. Through them, the Lord renews the world.
· The couple that
loves and begets life is a true, living icon capable of revealing God the
Creator and Savior. For this reason, fruitful love becomes a symbol of God's
inner life.
· Large families
are a joy for the Church.
IV. EDUCATION OF CHILDREN
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· It is important
to reiterate that the overall education of children is a "most serious
duty" and at the same time a "primary right" of parents. This is
not just a task or a burden, but an essential and inalienable right.
· What is most
important is the ability lovingly to help children grow in freedom, maturity,
overall discipline and real autonomy. Only in this way will children come to
possess the wherewithal needed to fend for themselves.
· Where are your
children existentially: where they stand in terms of their convictions, goals,
desires and dreams? Where is their soul?
· It is important
thing is to teach them sensitivity to different expressions of love, mutual
concern.
· Develop the habit
of giving real importance to the other person.
· It is important
to train children firmly to ask forgiveness and to repair the harm done to
others.
· Distractions
abound, including an addiction to television. This makes it all the more
difficult for parents to hand on the faith to their children.
· One of the most
important tasks of families is to provide an education in hope. This does not
mean preventing children from playing with electronic devices, but rather
finding ways to help them develop their critical abilities. When children or
adolescents are not helped to realize that some things have to be waited for,
they can become obsessed with satisfying their immediate needs and develop the
vice of “wanting it all now”. When we are taught to postpone some things until
the right moment, we learn self-mastery and detachment from our impulses.
· Sex
education can only be seen within the broader framework of an education for
love, for mutual self-giving.
· It is always
irresponsible to invite adolescents to toy with their bodies and their desires,
as if they possessed the maturity, values, mutual commitment and goals proper
to marriage.
· Show a person
that it is in his own interest to do what is right. Today, it is less and less
effective to demand something that calls for effort and sacrifice, without
clearly pointing to the benefits which it can bring.
· Strengthening of
the will and the repetition of specific actions
are the building blocks of moral conduct.
· Help children
view the world with the love of Jesus and who can understand life as a call to
serve God.
LAST ADVICE
· May we never lose
heart because of our limitations, or ever stop seeking that fullness of love
and communion which God holds out before us.
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